Who are the 2 most important people in the world?
Here are some clues:
- If both of these people are present, you begin Connecting
- Connecting leads to socialising
- As we understand more about each other, we move beyond merely connecting into the realm of socialising – of gauging what this other person’s motivations are, their views, their thoughts on various topics.
- Socialising leads to Relationships
- Relationships are vital to help us stay in tune with other people. I recently blogged that no one person can do it all on their own; we each have our foundation supporters and people we rely on; who keep the home running efficiently; who allow us to be who we are; who provide the support we need to do what we do.
- Relationships lead to Understanding
- Relationships lead to a better understanding of the world, an better understanding of ourselves and a better understanding of just how diverse and similar we are.
Coming back to the question: Who are the 2 most important people in the world?
You and Me
Look after you; Look after me; the rest will look after itself 
Here’s a quick summary of things I learned this week:
- Everyone you meet is on your side until you do something to annoy them or send them running
- Everyone you meet is fighting their own battle, so go easy on them (If they don’t go easy on you, ask them why.)
- Losing sense of yourself is a slippery slope
- Those who have good, strong friendships can weather any storm
- Riding a bicycle in the rain can be fun and takes me back to childhood when rain didn’t stop play!
And here are some questions I ponder:
- Does light have/is it affected by friction?
- If you are not self-aware…what are you?
- How far in this world someone can get TRULY on their own?
How about you, what are some of the learnings/observations/questions from you this past week?
There are a number of lists of “The three R’s”:
- Reading, Writing and Arithmetic
- Reduce Reuse Recycle
- Read, Write, Recite.
After a recent discussion at a North Side Coffee Morning (#nscm), I devised a new list of 3 R’s to help focus a little more on things that count (outside the realm of the academic education arena). These 3 R’s can be used in almost all aspects of life, and is something i am trying to instill in my children:
Respect.
esteem for or a sense of the worth or excellence of a person, a personal quality or ability, or something considered as a manifestation of a personal quality or ability*
Respect for yourself and others is an important trait to have. Not much can happen in this world without respect. If you respect the people that matter, it can take you far!
Responsibility.
One of the most important traits you can have is to be responsible: Responsible to yourself, your fellow man and the world you live in. Responsibility is an important part of life because it shows that you care about what you do and the impact you have. Having the fortitude to stand up and admit you stuffed up or hurt someone goes a long way. It’s also one of the cornerstones of trust, an important part of what makes the world go round.
Here’s one of my acts of responsibility I blogged about earlier in Taming the Ugliness.
Resilience.
This is a tough skill to learn. The ability to pick yourself up, dust yourself off and get back into it is one of the skills that will see you through many encounters in life, both good and bad! It’s quite a difficult skill to teach, however I have been trying with my boys to get them to understand that there will be times where things don’t go your way. It’s how you act when things are not going your way. It used to be called ‘character building’, but today I’ll call it resilience. Empathy with the ‘other’ side of the story or being able to see things from both sides can help.
Can you think of any other R’s that could make useful traits for life?
* All definitions from dictionary.com
Here’s a quick post to explain my use of Social media, notably Twitter, Facebook and LinkedIn
- Facebook is for your personal network, usually people you used to/still know;
- LinkedIn is for your professional network, usually people you’ve worked with/done business with in the past;
- Twitter is for people you haven’t met yet!
I try and keep my networks like the above, but since starting MyProactiveLife, I have been blurring the lines a little more, and I’m comfortable with doing so. Why? I believe that ultimately we are one person, and you cannot keep things separate forever – who I am is who I am, and I attempt to live my life by a set of core beliefs regardless if it’s dealing with a friend, would-be collaborator or work colleague!
Also, I would like people to know that who they meet and work with is someone they feel they can trust and build rapport with – I am not sure you can garner either of these without being sincere & authentic in all dealings with others.
What’re your thoughts on this?
